♥ To be encouraging and affirming, slow to anger, quick to love - always ♥

Took this Women Men Adore Quiz...

(Haha.... And Bu- In's Score is...........)

Bu-In Score : 23

Your score indicates that you might be prone to having 'bad luck' with men. This may manifest in the form of having trouble in your dating life, but it can just as easily mean that men frequently pursue you, but once in a relationship, it never seems to transition into something more long-term. Women who score in this range often are very insightful in many areas of their life but typically have trouble in dealing with conflict regarding men. They have a tendency to overreact or underreact to stressful situations. These types of reactions can be seen in such examples as:

Overreacting:

• Trying to be helpful by frequently correcting __________ (his driving habits, how he dresses, anything else where you feel he is lacking)
• Insisting your partner listen to you whenever you are upset.

Underreacting:

• When you are upset, ignoring 'that bad feeling.'
• Taking responsibility for his poor behavior by saying "I'm sorry," when you have done nothing wrong.

What to do about this: In the short-term, even though this may sound a bit harsh, admit to yourself that whatever pattern you have in your life is there because of certain things you are doing. While you are most likely very observant, you often assume that your observations in the short-term (one or two dates) are not always a good indicator of a man's true nature.

Because of your intuition to other's pain, you probably assume too much responsibility for how men feel toward you. Rather than focusing on whether the relationship is progressing in the direction you feel it should, try allowing it to progress at its own speed. By giving it more time, you will be able to observe the patterns that are a better predictor of future behavior than your intense feelings.

You also need to stop giving so much. Just because you could do something nice for a man, doesn't mean that you should. Remember, giving is a feminine trait while receiving is masculine. If you are giving more than you are getting that isn't a virtue, instead it often leads to a woman becoming impatient with a man.

(LOL... You-bo, is what the above written true?)